Beginner Love Spells & How To Attract The Love You Want
There are moments in life when love feels far away. Not gone, just quiet. Like a song you can almost hear but can’t quite place. And in those moments, it’s easy to wonder if love is meant for you at all, if the right person will ever find their way into your orbit, or if you’re destined to keep repeating the same patterns, the same disappointments, the same almosts.
Love magic doesn’t promise a person. It doesn’t promise a timeline. What it offers is something gentler, something truer: a way back to yourself. A way to remember what it feels like to be open without losing your boundaries, hopeful without losing your discernment, soft without losing your power.
Attraction work begins here, not with a spell, not with a candle, but with the quiet decision to stop calling in anything that doesn’t honor you.
There is a moment, right before you begin, when the world feels still. You open a window. You clear the corner of your desk. You breathe in a way you haven’t breathed all day. And suddenly, you’re aware of your own presence again. Your own heartbeat. Your own longing, not the frantic kind, but the honest kind. The kind that says, “I’m ready for something real.”
Candle magic is simple, but it’s never small. Fire has a way of revealing what you’re truly asking for. You choose a candle, pink for tenderness, red for desire, white for truth, and you hold it like a promise. Not to someone else, but to yourself. You let your mind drift toward the kind of love you want to feel. Not the face. Not the fantasy. The feeling.
Steady. Reciprocal. Safe.
A love that doesn’t disappear when things get real.
A love that doesn’t ask you to shrink.
And when your energy is quiet and your intention is clear, this is where the spell belongs. Not as decoration. Not as performance. But as a practice.
A SIMPLE, ETHICAL LOVE SPELL
This spell is designed to help you align your energy with the kind of love you’re ready to receive. Nothing forced. Nothing manipulative. Just clarity meeting intention.
You’ll need:
• a pink or white candle
• a small bowl of water
Steps:
Sit somewhere you won’t rush yourself. Let the moment settle around you.
Place the candle in front of you and the bowl of water beside it. The simplest altar is often the most honest.
Take three slow breaths, each one deeper than the last, until your chest softens.
Light the candle and watch the flame steady itself.
Close your eyes and visualize the feeling of the relationship you’re calling in, the steadiness, the warmth, the mutual choosing.
Dip your fingers into the water and touch your heart, inviting softness into the space you’re opening.
Say, aloud or in your mind:
“I call in love that honors my truth.”
That’s it. Just intention, presence, and the courage to name what you want.
The spell works because you do.
There’s a truth most people never tell you: you attract from the place you cast from. If you cast from hunger, you call in hunger. If you cast from loneliness, you call in loneliness. But when you cast from clarity, from the version of yourself who knows what she deserves, the entire frequency shifts.
This is why journaling matters. Not as homework, but as revelation.
What does aligned love feel like in my body?
Where have I abandoned myself before, and what changes now?
What qualities in a partner support my growth?
What boundaries protect my softness without closing my heart?
You write until something inside you exhales. Until the truth becomes undeniable.
Later, when the candle has burned down and the room has returned to its ordinary shape, you sit for a moment longer. You imagine a soft glow expanding from your chest, filling the space around you. You imagine a relationship where your nervous system unclenches. A connection that feels like coming home to yourself.
You hold that feeling.
You let it settle.
And something inside you shifts, not loudly, not dramatically, but with the quiet certainty of someone who finally knows what they’re calling in.
Love magic is not about control. It is about coherence.
When your inner world aligns with the love you’re ready for, the outer world eventually follows.
This week is your invitation to call in love that can actually hold you. Not someday. Not eventually.
Now, in the soft, steady way real magic always begins.